I've grown comfortable with having my privacy. All you have to do is comment down there saying where you found me from and why you'd like to friend me and I'll add you right away. I don't have an age limit because I believe some teenagers can be more mature than adult counterparts. But I do have one rule, if you're one of the -isms ex. racism, sexism, or you identify as a one of the -phobes, I'd really appreciate if you didn't add me as I'm not only black, I'm a female and I identify as bisexual and I have a disability.
Fanfiction and other fannish stuff is out in the open though, so need to friend for those.